My beautiful Girls

Destinee age six

Is my spontaneous child that gets excited about anything. She is also very independent and out going and she knows what she and why and if you step in her way she will shut down. She is very true to who she is and when she feels that someone is trying to get her to do something that does not align with who she is she get upset and she shuts herself off from the world by being quit and wanting to be left alone. But when she is able to do things that align with who she is she gets so excited, she begins dancing around and singing at the top of her lungs and that is the Destinee we see more and more. While Destinee was in Head start and six months of kindergarten she learned that she had to do what others said no matter how she felt about it and when she was in kindergarten that message was even deeper ingrained when they tried to push her to learn to read even though she wasn't ready and stated that she was not ready. She heard them saying that they wanted to test her for learning disabilities that is when she told me she didn't want to go anymore she I kept her home. Ever sense then she has been different. She is very in tune to how she feels and wants others to know when they are doing something or trying to make her do something that doesn't align with who she is. As parents we are her partner and support her independence and encourage it. Destinee loves life. She loves being outside in the world and being around people of all ages. She is very respectful of others and the world around her. She loves nature and learning new things. Destinee has a lot of common sense and I never had to worry about her doing thing like sticking her finger in sockets or running out in the road. I have always explained things to her even when she was a baby.



Cearra age five

Is my blue eyed wild child. She is very independent, out going, and out spoken. She know what she wants and why and she will tell you. She will let you know when she is upset or doesn't agree especially when it is something that is not aligned with who she truly is. She is a child that you easily compromise with and work out a solution that everyone is happy with. But as soon as you loose your cool or become inpatient she gets hurt and lets you know it. When who she truly is is being supported then she is happy and lovable. She loves to snuggle and laugh. She always has a smile on her face. She loves to discuss things in great detail and loves to ask questions. She has a passion for learning. Cearra has never been to school so she has always loved learning and never needed to learn how to love learning again. She is very observant about the world around her and knows when someone isn't telling the truth and will say something about it. She is very honest and isn't afraid to be honest. She doesn't care what others think, she only cares about what she thinks. She knows she is her own person and doesn't let others tell her she needs to do things their way. She will say I can do it my way and it will still work. She has a lot of common sense and gets the world around her. I have always explained things to her when she was a baby.



Kaley two and a half

Is my loving and cuddly two and a half year old that loves life and gets very excited about new and old things. She is always asking questions about everything around her and loves to talk about anything. She loves animals and nature. She loves being outdoors. She also loves all people but can read people very well and will shy away from people that make her uneasy. She is spunky and knows what she wants and isn't afraid to say no. She has never been spanked or put in time out so she has no idea what that is like and she never will. When she isn't listened to she gets very upset and does everything she can to get you to listen or notice her. She is very true to who she is and if if someone tries to get her to do something that isn't in alignment with that she gets very upset and communicates that very well. She has a lot of common sense. She loves it when people pay attention to her and take the time to listen to her. She does get upset when she is trying to communicate something but others can't understand. We try as her partners in this life to ease her frustrations as much as possible. She rarely throws fits and very happy most of the time. She is always smiling and singing and dancing.